rePost: Illegal immigrants' kids want the 'American Dream'

It is a sad predicament that these people are in, pretty much unrequited love ?? But these are people who have lived so long in the US and probably know of no other way of life that denying them a chance at a normal life is wrong.
from here:

Illegal immigrants’ kids want the ‘American Dream’
PASCKIE PASCUA, Philippine News
08/18/2008 | 12:09 PM
LOS ANGELES — Childish grins intermittently escape from Stephanie Solis’ waif-like face like tiny arrows that cut through the concrete facade of America’s heart. “I don’t feel very Filipino,” she said,” I’m told I am not American, but the only thing that rings true to me is the English language.”
Stephanie arrived in the United States when she was only three years old. At that time, her parents only taught her to speak in English, “as if in preparation for something,” she said.
With a poignant mix of bashful restraint, sharp wit, and nonchalant humor, other “undocumented undergrads” like Stephanie narrated their stories before an entranced Sunday gathering at the Remy’s on Temple Art Gallery in Filipinotown here last Aug 10.
The “book party” aims at raising awareness about the plight of Asian-American undocumented college students, most of whom were brought to the U.S. as young children, and grew up in working class, immigrant enclaves.
The event was also meant to promote the publication, “Underground Undergrads: UCLA Undocumented Immigrant Students Speak Out,” and to help press for the passage of the California Dream Act that would allow undocumented students to compete for financial aid.
More than 300 undocumented UCLA students (part of around 65,000 who graduate from high schools throughout the country each year) face a formidable wall that Californians are currently struggling to scale, that of budget allocation.
These students, however, have already scored a victory that would reverberate for generations to come – they emerged from the cold shadows of immigrant paranoia and boldly spoke out.
“We are a rapidly-growing profoundly intelligent and culturally unique population, we are a goldmine,” says Bhamani, who had to excise extra improvisational skills and creative alibis to be able to outwit her adamant grandfather so she could hop in a bus to Filipinotown that day.
“The US government must recognize us,” she declares.
The California Dream Act, introduced by the state Legislature, would allow undocumented students to compete for financial aid opportunities. Both the California Senate and California Assembly passed similar legislation last year. It was, however, vetoed by Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger.
On the national level, the federal Dream Act would provide an opportunity for undocumented students to earn a path to legalization by pursuing their education or serving their country in the military. In spite of bipartisan support, a minority of senators blocked the Dream Act from passage last October.
Since the passage of Assembly Bill 540 in 2001, undocumented students have become eligible to pay in-state tuition if they have completed three years of high school in California and graduated from a California high school.
AB 540 was a significant step forward in increasing access to higher education for California’s undocumented students. Passage of the Dream Act will realize that goal.
“My students at UCLA have been trained as teachers, social workers, scientists, accountants, engineers, and health-care professionals.
Their skills are desperately needed by our society. Business leaders realize that our economy needs more trained professionals, and many have supported both the California Dream Act and the federal Dream Act,” says Kent Wong Kent, who teaches labor studies and Asian American studies at UCLA.
“These underground undergrads are forced to live in the shadows. These students have done everything our society has asked of them: they have worked hard, stayed in school, and are pursuing their dreams. They have not failed us, but we as a society have failed them.”
Tam Tran, whose parents escaped the Vietnam War as boat people and were rescued by the German Navy, has traveled to Washington D.C. to lobby for the federal Dream Act before lawmakers.
“I can’t work legally even though I do have some legal status. Without the Dream Act, I have no prospect of overcoming my immigration status limbo. I’ll forever be a perpetual foreigner in a country I’ve always considered my home,” the recent UCLA graduate said.
Tam, whose passion is in the creation of documentary films, showed her own video production called “Lost and Found” at the event. It tells the story of Stephanie Solis, with the girl herself as the short film’s “actress.”
“My parents never told me that we were undocumented until I was 18 years old. Since then, my immigration status has affected every aspect of my life,” Solis, a junior majoring in English creative writing, tells the viewers.
“My parents are skilled and intelligent, but they float from one low-paying job to another. I share in their struggles with unemployment because like them, I do not have legal identification. Like a child, I cannot work, drive, or prove my age.”
Angelo Mathay, whose mother conceived him out of wedlock flew to the U.S. to “escape” humiliation in the Philippines, a predominantly Catholic-based culture.
“I wanted to come when my father died, but I couldn’t because of my status,” he said.
“As student activists, we are building on the tradition of the civil rights movement and promoting the passage of legislation that will enable millions of undocumented students to not only dream but also start living a life without borders,” Mathay writes in the preface of “Underground Undergrads.” – Philippine News

rePost: Ninoy Aquino: A hero for all seasons—Nene Pimentel

This is a privilege speech from Senator Nene Pimentel on his friend Ninoy Aquino
from here:

Ninoy Aquino: A hero for all seasons—Nene Pimentel
It is the sum of his selfless deeds that gives meaning to August 21 as a celebratory occasion, to remind ourselves of the meaning of his life and especially of his epic death.
The great French dramatist Jean Anouilh (1910-87) incisively categorized human beings into two classes. He said:
“There are two races of beings. The masses teeming and happy — common clay, if you like — eating, breeding, working, counting their pennies; people who just live; ordinary people; xxx. And then there are the others — the noble ones, the heroes. The ones you can quite well imagine lying shot, pale and tragic; one minute triumphant with a guard of honor, and the next being marched away between two gendarmes.”
I am sure that the Frenchman Anouilh had not met the Filipino Benigno S. Aquino, Jr.  Yet, he could have very well spoken those lines in reference to him.
Indeed, our people watched with awe the incredible feats of Ninoy, the Wunderkind, from the ‘50s at the start of his teenage life all the way to his mid-life. Then some 30 years later, in horror they witnessed TV footage and still pictures of Ninoy “lying shot, pale and tragic” on his arrival at the tarmac of the Manila International Airport.
To be more precise, the tragedy played out on August 21, 1983 at the Manila International Airport.
Under house arrest
On the afternoon of that day, I was in my study in my house in Cagayan de Oro where at the time I was under house arrest on charges of rebellion against the martial law administration.
The phone rang and the voice at the other end said that my friend, Ninoy, had just been shot dead at the tarmac of the Manila International Airport.
Although I had previously warned Ninoy about that tragic possibility should he come home from Boston where we met in 1982, now that it happened, the incident left me completely shattered and shocked beyond belief.
What a waste of talent, I told myself. I knew that Ninoy did not have to come home at the time or at all while martial law ruled the land.
Extra mile
But as the fates would have it, in 1983, three years after his heart surgery, he made public his decision to go home. His family and his friends in the US advised him not to do so. Even the wife of President Marcos said in the media that it was not advisable for Ninoy to come home because as she had put it bluntly he might be killed upon arrival.
The advice of his family and friends, notwithstanding, Ninoy came home. He said he wanted to walk the extra mile for peace in the land and convince President Marcos that it was time to end martial law and restore the country to its democratic moorings.
Freedom shot
But upon landing at the Manila International Airport, burly men, strutting with the harsh mien of unbridled authority went up the plane and brusquely hustled him down the steps of the plane’s ladder. Then, a shot rang out and seconds later, Ninoy was seen by his co-passengers lying down on the tarmac bruised and mortally wounded.
The shot reverberated throughout the country but instead of scaring the people with the awesome display of martial law power, it freed them from their lethargic acceptance of martial rule and roused them to a fever-pitch revulsion of it.
At Ninoy’s wake, thousands of people from all segments of society – the rich, the poor, men, women, and children – paid him their last respects. And 10 days later, more two million people walked 12 hours from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. beside his bier to escort him to his final resting place or watched from the sidewalks more in anger than in sadness at what they thought was a senseless sacrifice of the life of a man who was destined for greatness.
In 1986 or three years after Ninoy’s assassination, the people had enough of martial rule. And it was, now the turn of the executor of martial rule and his family – public and private – to leave the country and go into exile in Hawaii. Their leaving heralded the return of a democratic government to the land.
A hero made or born?
But was Ninoy a hero made or was he hero born?
The question may sound academic but it has a bearing on whether or not Ninoy deserves the accolades that he has been receiving from our people since 1986 when martial law was finally uprooted from the land.
Skeptics probably entertain the view that setting aside August 21 of every year is an example of an undue honor for the man who would be hero.
I beg to disagree. It is not the setting aside of August 21 to commemorate the day of Ninoy’s assassination every year that makes him a hero. To belabour the point, it is rather the sum of his selfless deeds that makes him so and gives meaning to August 21 as a celebratory occasion for the people to remind ourselves of the meaning of his life and especially of his epic death.
But to go back to the larger question of whether or not heroes are made or born, I am not too sure that there is a neat “either or” reply to it. At least, not in the case of Ninoy.
Heroic dimension
The supreme sacrifice of Ninoy presented Philippine society with a heroic dimension that it sorely needed and at the time when we needed it most.
For months before his assassination, foreign wags had started to air scurrilous statements that the Philippines was “a nation of 60 million cowards” who did not have the courage to stand up to one-man rule.
That observation, it must be said, was not true at all. There were people who fought the martial law regime in various ways – some peaceful, others violent. But it was the assassination of Ninoy that gave a nationally recognizable face to the heroic dimension of our society.
Despite its inherently evil connotations, Ninoy’s assassination – as the Fates had decreed it – was, thus, a good thing for the Philippine society as a whole.
For as the philosopher Jean Baudrillard asked, “What is a society without a heroic dimension?”
Ninoy Aquino offered his life to answer the question and in the process proved the skeptics wrong. He also showed that he was right along with those of us who believed in our people: that indeed, the Filipino was worth dying for.
———-
These are excerpts from the privilege speech of Sen. Nene Pimentel delivered on August 13, 2008.

rePost: MILF rebels withdraw to Lanao uplands as conflict kills 31

from here:

MILF rebels withdraw to Lanao uplands as conflict kills 31
Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF) separatists have withdrawn to the hinterlands of Lanao del Norte after armed conflict in predominantly Christian coastal communities of the province left at least 28 civilians and three soldiers dead.
Lanao del Norte Gov. Mohamad Khalid Dimaporo told ANC’s Top Story on Monday that MILF rebels have withdrawn from the province’s coastal towns such as Kolambugan and that the military is “positioning itself to secure the province’s coastal towns.”
Dimaporo called on the miltiary to pursue the MILF rebels who occupied some of the provincial towns Monday morning and early afternoon.
MILF rebels raided several towns in Lanao del Norte province, looting businesses, burning homes and randomly attacking the mostly Christian villagers, officials said.
President Gloria Arroyo branded the attacks by the Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF) guerrillas as “sneaky and treacherous” and in clear violation of peace negotiations, and ordered the army to “defend every inch” of soil.
AFP reporters saw nine bodies lying bloodied by a roadside in one village in Kauswagan town as black smoke billowed from burning houses.
Five other civilians were killed in another village by the marauding MILF fighters, while six more bodies were found, also in Kauswagan, later Monday.
All 20 bodies were taken by troops to two mortuaries in Iligan city a few kilometres (miles) away, an AFP reporter saw.
In the town of Kolambugan, six civilians and three soldiers were killed, mayor Beltran Lumaque said in a radio interview. Among those killed was Colonel Angelo Benitez, an army brigade commander whose troops had engaged the rebels in intense gunbattles since dawn.
Another rebel unit struck the town of Maasim, leaving two civilians dead as they ransacked a pawn shop and looted a drug store, said the military.
Some of the dead had been hacked by machetes.
Safe to return?
Dimaporo said the MILF rebels retreated to predominantly Muslim towns in the “interior, timberland areas” of Lanao del Norte near Lanao del Sur. He said the upland towns of Munai and Poona Paigapo of Lanao del Norte are the MILF strongholds of the province.
Citing military reports, Dimaporo said the MILF rebels who attacked the town were reinforced by rebels from Lanao del Sur and Maguindanao. “Those are the people, the groups who attacked Lanao del Norte today,” he said.
With the MILF having withdrawn to the uplands of Lanao del Norte, Dimaporo said that “more or less, the communities are safe” for now.
He said the provincial government will try to convince those who evacuated to nearby areas like Ozamiz City in Misamis Occidental, and in Iligan City to return to their homes.
“We’re trying to convince them to come back to the province, but more or less it’s safe. The military has secured the national highway and they are doubling their forces and their highest priority now is to keep the coastal towns safe and secure,” Dimaporo said.
Silent on MOA
He lamented that the MILF still attacked Lanao del Norte towns even if it did not openly oppose the Memorandum of Agreement on Ancestral Domain (MOA-AD) between the government and the MILF, unlike North Cotabato and Zamboanga.
“All reserved their rage about the MOA signing and they waited until it reached Congress, and yet the MILF attacked our towns. We wanted to give peace a chance We didn’t comment so much on the TV, on the radio opposing the MOA and yet the MILF still attacked Lanao del Norte,” Dimaporo said.
“They’re very unreasonable, and I believe the military should go in hot pursuit of the MILF and clear Lanao del Norte [of rebels],” he added.
Dimaporo claimed that the residents of Lanao del Norte who used to favor joining the Autonomous Region of Muslim Mindanao (ARMM) after the 1996 peace agreement with the Moro National Liberation Front no longer want to be part of the expanded Bangsamoro territory after seeing the alleged failed governance in the ARMM.
“After seeing the performance of the ARMM ever since then, the people don’t want to join the ARMM anymore. They don’t want to be part of the Bangsamoro homeland. They are already receiving roads and infrastructure from the government. They are very happy with what they’re receiving right now,” he said.
At least 26 killed
Brig. Gen. Hilario Atendido, commander of the military’s Task Force Tabak, said 23 civilians and three soldiers were killed in fighting in Lanao del Norte.
Around 500 rebels had occupied the town of Kolambugan while another 300 tried to occupy the town of Kauswagan.
Atendido said most of the civilian casualties were from Kolambugan and Linamon towns. Some of the civilians killed were hostages taken by the MLF during the occupation of Kolambugan.
“The civilians were killed when the rebels were withdrawing. They used them as human shields. The rebels killed them on their way out. They were killed as if they were like chicken. That is the report given to us by the civilians,” Atendido said.
He said the military will “remain vigilant” against attacks from MILF rebels.
“We are still on alert for any possible return of the MILF. They withdrew from Kolambugan as the troops were entering the town,” Atendido said.
Lt. Gen. Nelson Allaga, head of the AFP’s Western Mindanao Command, told ANC’s Top Story that the military was “now in pursuit operations” of the MILF rebels.
Allaga rejected calls for a ceasefire since they are “still running after the perpetrators” of the conflict in Lanao del Norte.
He said the MILF rebels did the most damage in the town of Kolambugan, but the military was allegedly able to limit the conflict in the towns of Kauswagan and Linamon. –with reports from AFP

rePost: Death toll in MILF attacks in Lanao, Sarangani hits 28

I don’t know what to think, Its just that most people who being killed are non combatants. The rebels are killing innocent people who just want to live their lives in peace. Hostilities must stop before peace talks resume (As I understand it it has not stopped, well communication between the powers are important). Also in local tv the MILF spokesman says that the rogue commanders cannot be blamed for being impatient.
BS! You do not kill to be noticed. Raze houses , establishments are inexcusable what more for precious human life. If the MILF leadership really did not order the raids then they must be the first to produce the rogue commanders, it helps them consolidate their troops and show to the Filipino people their desire to resolve this decades long rebellion.
from here:

Death toll in MILF attacks in Lanao, Sarangani hits 28
08/18/2008 | 04:43 PM
MANILA, Philippines – The death toll in the attacks staged by suspected Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF) rebels in the southern provinces of Lanao del Norte and Sarangani has reached 28, officials said Monday.
Brig. Gen. Hilario Atendido, commander of Task Force Tabak, said most of the casualties were from the towns of Lanao del Norte attacked by the rebels – 23 civilians and three government soldiers.
In addition, two government troops were also wounded.
Sarangani Governor Miguel Rene Dominguez earlier said two civilians were killed when MILF forces attacked the town of Maasim before dawn Monday.
“They (civilians) were killed when they (rebels) were withdrawing. They used them as human shields. The rebels killed them on their way out. They were killed as if like chicken. That is the report given to us by the civilians,” Atendido said.
Atendido said the military in the province will remain vigilant for another atrocities the rebels may launch. “We are still on alert for any possible return of the MILF…They withdrew (from Kolambugan) as the troops were entering the town.”
At the National Police headquarters at Camp Crame, the initial list showed 13 fatalities in Lanao del Norte and two in Sarangani province. Three people were also reportedly wounded.
Marine Lt. Gen. Nelson Allaga, chief of the Armed Forces Western Mindanao Command (Westmincom), said government troops would make sure that civilians would not be caught in the crossfire as pursuit operations are conducted.
“We will continue to perform our mandate as protector of the Filipino people against lawless elements. Your AFP shall always be at the forefront of combating all forms of violence in order to uphold peace and security in the area and bring to justice the people responsible for these despicable acts,” Allaga said.
The casualty figures started to rise Monday, a day after suspected MILF troops ambushed a military convoy near the boundary of Mulondo and Buadiposo-Buntong towns in Lanao del Sur which killed seven and wounded 11 others.
The MILF followed this up Monday morning with simultaneous attacks against the towns of the Kolambugan and Kauswagan in Lanao del Norte and the town of Maasim in Sarangani.
The attacks were apparently in retaliation for the stalled signing of the memorandum of agreement on ancestral domain between government and the MILF negotiators.
In Manila, the National Disaster Coordinating Council said that the MILF also bombed and toppled three transmission towers of the National Transmission Corp or Transco which may cause the tripping of power supply in Mindanao.
At the same time, it said that at least 9,350A were displaced by the fighting.
The NDCC, in its 3 p.m. report, also said that the MILF ransacked the pharmacy and town hall of Maasim in Sarangani province, and killed at least two civilians.
NDCC said that in Lapayan village in Kauswagan in Lanao del Sur, the MILF troops burned an undetermined number of houses and that portions of the highway from Iligan to Ozamiz City and Kapatagan remained impassable.
Most of those who have evacuated were taken to evacuation centers in Ozamiz City.- GMANews.TV

Living Til 80

Will I Live To See 80 is much much too different than will I be alive when I am 80?

thanks to Angry Bear here:

Friday, August 15, 2008

Living to 80

Hat tip to CoRev
Will I Live to see 80?
Here’s something to think about.
I recently picked a new primary care doctor. After two visits and
exhaustive lab tests, he said I was doing ‘fairly well’ for my age.
A little concerned about that comment, I couldn’t resist asking him, ‘Do
you think I’ll live to be 80?’
He asked, ‘Do you smoke tobacco, or drink beer or wine?’
‘Oh no,’ I replied. ‘I’m not doing drugs, either!’
Then he asked, ‘Do you eat rib-eye steaks and barbecued ribs?
‘I said, ‘No, my former doctor said that all red meat is very unhealthy!’
Do you spend a lot of time in the sun, like playing golf, sailing, hiking,
or bicycling?’ ‘No, I don’t,’ I said.
He asked, ‘Do you gamble, drive fast cars, or have a lot of sex?’
‘No,’ I said
He looked at me and said,….
‘Then, why do you even give a shit?

rePost: SC chief: Constitution allows autonomy but not secession

Good News! Now we just have to make noise against the Charter Change try and we can wait til 2010 to elect a better president.
from gmanew here:

(Update) MANILA, Philippines – Supreme Court Chief Justice Reynato Puno on Friday rejected the possibility of the creation of a separate state in Mindanao, saying the Constitution does not allow secession.
At the same time, four justices expressed the opinion that the petition to junk the agreement between government and the Moro Islamic Liberation Front (MILF) was “premature.”
These cropped up during the oral arguments on the government’s ancestral domain agreement with the MILF where Puno equivocally said that the Constitution only allows for autonomy.
“Most that can be done is autonomy. It should be done within the framework of the Constitution, national sovereignty and territorial integrity of the Republic of the Philippines,” Puno said.
Puno cited Article 10, Section 15 of the Constitution which states the creation of the Autonomous Region in Muslim Mindanao.
For his part, Supreme Court Associate Justice Antonio Carpio challenged the constitutionality of the government’s draft agreement on the issue of ancestral domain with the MILF.
Carpio questioned the constitutionality of several provisions in the agreement particularly those that provide for the creation of a Bangsamoro Juridical Entity (BJE).
He said this would need an amendment of the Organic Act which requires an act of Congress and ratification of the people.
Carpio also noted that the provisions which allows the BJE to maintain its own police and military forces is violative of the Constitution.
“The Police is national in scope, civilian in nature and controlled by the National Police Commission…The President is the commander in chief of all armed forces. The President has sole control of training, recruitment and payroll,” Carpio said.
“The BJE cannot head the AFP,” Carpio added.
The Associate Justice also said that the provision which allows for the creation of a separate justice system for the BJE is likewise a clear violation of the Constitution.
Carpio noted that under the Constitution, the country will have a unitary justice system headed by the Supreme Court.
“Under Article 8 (of the Constitution), the judicial power shall be bested on one Supreme Court, a unitary judicial system. SC has the sole disciplinary authority over its courts and its personnel,” Carpio said.
Carpio also said the provision in the agreement for the conduct of a plebiscite after 25 years to pave the way for the widening of the BJE’s coverage encroaches into the power of the legislature to schedule a plebiscite to decide on such issues.
Carpio also expressed the observation that there was a seeming lack in consultation in the drafting of the agreement, saying even indigenous peoples in Mindanao have been left out in the draft agreement.
He said under the MOA, the lumads or tribal people of Mindanao will be incorporated to the Bangsamoro, believers of Islam. There are 18 lumad groups in Mindanao.
He said with the incorporation, the ancestral domain of the lumads will become part of the Bangsamoro ancestral domain.
He said it would put the entire Mindanao, Sulu and Palawan, which were the ancestral domains of the lumads, under the Bangsamoro.

BarCamp Manila August 21, 2008, 7:00 PM

here is the link to the wiki :http://barcamp.org/BarCampManila
Thanks to Jon for forwarding the invites! This has made my day! maybe even my weekend!
So excited!

BarCamp Manila – August 21, 2008, 7:00 PM

What:

A BarCamp is an ad-hoc unconference born from the desire for people to share and learn in an open environment. It is an intense event with discussions, demos and interaction from attendees. All attendees are encouraged to share some form of technical information, be it a software development tip, tools, product demo, open source projects, software, hardware, etc. – in seven (7) minutes!
Anyone with something to contribute or with the desire to learn is welcome and invited to join.
When you come, be prepared to share with BarCampers. When you leave, be prepared to share it with the world. Blog about what you learned, share it in a forum, or even help organize the next BarCamp!
If this is your first time to attend a BarCamp, you should read TheRulesOfBarCamp.

Why:

To learn, meet people who share different interests, contribute, and push yourself and your thinking.

When:

August 21, 2008 from 7PM onwards

Where:

G2VC Innovation Center
5th Floor, The Orient Square
F. Ortigas Road (formerly Emerald Ave.)
Ortigas Center, Pasig City

What to bring:

  • A laptop, or any wifi-capable device
  • Your share of information/presentation!
  • Your desire to share, collaborate and have fun with fellow geeks

How:

  1. Register for the event by adding your name and contact details in this wiki page (see “I want to attend BarCampManila” section)
  2. On the day of the BarCamp, arrive early so you can register the topic you want to discuss
  3. Meet, interact, and enjoy the camp with fellow geeks!

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  1. Kenneth C. Demanawa
  2. Jerome Gotangco – http://www.twitter.com/JeromeGotangco
  3. Raymond Olavides
  4. Joe Siao
  5. Elmer Rivera
  6. Dean Michael Berris
  7. Glenn Gonzales
  8. Jerry Rapes
  9. Janette Toral
  10. Brent Lipke
  11. Paolo Dizon
  12. Napoleon Esmundo C. Ramirez
  13. Noel Feria
  14. Luis Buenaventura
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Cultural (non)Success???

original post here from the marginal revolutions blog:
As distinct from happiness, of course:
1. If a kid does badly in school, does the parent genuinely get mad at the kid and withhold affection?
2. Can people wait in an orderly line?
3. Can people stay in their designated lane when driving a car?

1.  I think based on personal experience YES, The Philippines is relatively poor and studying is a privelege. We have about 37% or around 28 million people 0-14year old which translates to about elementary and highschool (13 million elementary and 6 million highschool students Note: that we are missing 2 years worth of students because this is the available data from the NSO website this means that the percentage would probably or definitely be higher.) 19/28 around 30% this does not even take to account that most students from provincial farming/mountain community have to work in their farms and go to remote schools. What I am trying to say albeit unsuccessfully is that going to school is a big deal. (I am being apologetic but come one different circumstances different reactions)
2. Nope I’ve never found a line  that anybody did not try to cut. I tend to feel that everyone feels It’s below them to fall in line. I remember reading a story in the local newspaper about one of the Ayala brothers (owners of Globe probably 3 riches family in the Philippines, Old Rich) falling in line in the Airport being approached by some newly rich (mostly from government contract the writer quipped) asking “why are you falling in line ? go with me I know people here, You don’t need to waste your time”, that man was respectfully smiled at and not politely told no thank’s
3. I do not drive because driving here is simply crazy. People have no respect for right of way.
for 1 and 2 people need to imbibe the notion that in a cultured world you shall have your turn, you just have to wait for it.