rePost::Irritable Writing On Same-Sex Marriage | Pinoy Everyman

Agree Vince, as I’ve been saying  The Church Groups (ALL) can keep “marriage” the word as long as there is a parallel union legal construct that for all legal purposes is a marriage without the religious side. Yes to same sex union

Funny thing is, I don’t even benefit from the passage of a law that allows LBGTs to marry. But, I also wouldn’t be inconvenienced by the passage of such a law, so really, why not let these people marry? It doesn’t harm you, it doesn’t harm me, and it would mean the world for LBGT couples who’re probably more committed to one another than many heterosexual marriages elsewhere.
via Irritable Writing On Same-Sex Marriage | Pinoy Everyman.

rePost::My Life as an Undocumented Immigrant – NYTimes.com

I decided then that I could never give anyone reason to doubt I was an American. I convinced myself that if I worked enough, if I achieved enough, I would be rewarded with citizenship. I felt I could earn it.
I’ve tried. Over the past 14 years, I’ve graduated from high school and college and built a career as a journalist, interviewing some of the most famous people in the country. On the surface, I’ve created a good life. I’ve lived the American dream.
But I am still an undocumented immigrant. And that means living a different kind of reality. It means going about my day in fear of being found out. It means rarely trusting people, even those closest to me, with who I really am. It means keeping my family photos in a shoebox rather than displaying them on shelves in my home, so friends don’t ask about them. It means reluctantly, even painfully, doing things I know are wrong and unlawful. And it has meant relying on a sort of 21st-century underground railroad of supporters, people who took an interest in my future and took risks for me.
via My Life as an Undocumented Immigrant – NYTimes.com.

rePost::J.D.B. v. North Carolina: Sonia Sotomayor shows Samuel Alito the value of judicial empathy. – By Dahlia Lithwick – Slate Magazine

nakakaaliw naman ito, bravo!

Sotomayor, writing for the court’s four liberals and Justice Anthony Kennedy, explained that the pressure of a custodial interrogation is “so immense that it ‘can induce a frighteningly high percentage of people to confess to crimes they never committed’ ” and referred to studies showing that youngsters are particularly susceptible to such pressure. Therefore, she explains, “a reasonable child subjected to police questioning will sometimes feel pressured to submit when a reasonable adult would feel free to go” and that—empathy alert!—”such conclusions apply broadly to children as a class. And, they are self-evident to anyone who was a child once himself, including any police officer or judge.”
Sotomayor points out that the law has no trouble setting distinct standards for children and adults based on the idea that events that “would leave a man cold and unimpressed can overawe and overwhelm a lad in his early teens.” And she notes that “these observations restate what ‘any parent knows’—indeed, what any person knows—about children generally.”
Sotomayor doubles down on the need to show special solicitude to the suspect’s age by mocking the absurdity of a judge trying her level best to imagine how “a reasonable adult [might] understand his situation, after being removed from a seventh-grade social studies class by a uniformed school resource officer; being encouraged Sotomayor, writing for the court’s four liberals and Justice Anthony Kennedy, explained that the pressure of a custodial interrogation is “so immense that it ‘can induce a frighteningly high percentage of people to confess to crimes they never committed’ ” and referred to studies showing that youngsters are particularly susceptible to such pressure. Therefore, she explains, “a reasonable child subjected to police questioning will sometimes feel pressured to submit when a reasonable adult would feel free to go” and that—empathy alert!—”such conclusions apply broadly to children as a class. And, they are self-evident to anyone who was a child once himself, including any police officer or judge.”
Sotomayor points out that the law has no trouble setting distinct standards for children and adults based on the idea that events that “would leave a man cold and unimpressed can overawe and overwhelm a lad in his early teens.” And she notes that “these observations restate what ‘any parent knows’—indeed, what any person knows—about children generally.”
Sotomayor doubles down on the need to show special solicitude to the suspect’s age by mocking the absurdity of a judge trying her level best to imagine how “a reasonable adult [might] understand his situation, after being removed from a seventh-grade social studies class by a uniformed school resource officer; being encouraged by his assistant principal to ‘do the right thing’; and being warned by a police investigator of the prospect of juvenile detention and separation from his guardian and primary caretaker.” She concludes that empathy is hardly impossible to muster in these settings: “Just as police officers are competent to account for other objective circumstances that are a matter of degree such as the length of questioning or the number of officers present, so too are they competent to evaluate the effect of relative age. … The same is true of judges, including those whose childhoods have long since passed. … In short, officers and judges need no imaginative powers, knowledge of developmental psychology, training in cognitive science, or expertise in social and cultural anthropology to account for a child’s age. They simply need the common sense to know that a 7-year-old is not a 13-year-old and neither is an adult.”by his assistant principal to ‘do the right thing’; and being warned by a police investigator of the prospect of juvenile detention and separation from his guardian and primary caretaker.” She concludes that empathy is hardly impossible to muster in these settings: “Just as police officers are competent to account for other objective circumstances that are a matter of degree such as the length of questioning or the number of officers present, so too are they competent to evaluate the effect of relative age. … The same is true of judges, including those whose childhoods have long since passed. … In short, officers and judges need no imaginative powers, knowledge of developmental psychology, training in cognitive science, or expertise in social and cultural anthropology to account for a child’s age. They simply need the common sense to know that a 7-year-old is not a 13-year-old and neither is an adult.”
via J.D.B. v. North Carolina: Sonia Sotomayor shows Samuel Alito the value of judicial empathy. – By Dahlia Lithwick – Slate Magazine.

Better Press Corp?::Heidi Mendoza: Honesty in Church finances also needed | ABS-CBN News | Latest Philippine Headlines, Breaking News, Video, Analysis, Features

I’ve highlighted the whole article to show that the headline is wierd given the article.  I originally she was trying to convince church leaders to be more transparent with their finances.

Heidi Mendoza: Honesty in Church finances also needed
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Posted at 06/16/2011 11:10 AM | Updated as of 06/16/2011 11:10 AM
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MANILA, Philippines – Whistleblower Heidi Mendoza believes honesty in government, business and even in the Church is needed to bring change in the country.
“We cannot dream of an honest government without doing anything. We need to do something,” Mendoza told the Catholic Church’s financial administrators.
Mendoza is the guest speaker at the Archdiocesan/Diocesan Financial Administrators of the Philippines 13th National Convention currently being held at the Pius XII Center in Paco, Manila. The yearly gathering, which will end on Friday, is focused on the theme “Sustaining Opportunities towards Success.”
Mendoza, who blew the whistle on corruption in the military, said it is difficult to hold money “especially if it is not yours.”
She, however, noted: “It’s not true that it’s hard to be honest even in times of need.”
“I’m not holy or religious but I’m always looking at God’s will. Another way to (maintain honesty) is constant prayer,” she said.
“I’m always proud that I am a Catholic. I’m always proud that I’m a Filipino. I’m always proud that I’m a public servant,” Mendoza added.
“The only key is by being true to God. If you have faith you don’t have to worry about many things that might come along your way.”
The convention has around 140 participants, mostly lay people, including some priests, nuns and bishops led by Cubao Bishop Honesto Ongtioco, treasurer of the Catholic Bishops’ Conference of the Philippines.
Mendoza made headlines in February after quitting her job in the Asian Development Bank and delivering explosive testimony before Congress on the alleged misuse of military and United Nations (UN) peacekeeping funds.
Mendoza worked for the Commission on Audit for over 20 years and had been part of fraud audit investigations of government transactions. She resigned from the COA in 2005 and had worked with the Asian Development Bank before appearing in the congressional probes.
She was recently appointed commissioner of the COA. Report by CBCPNews
via Heidi Mendoza: Honesty in Church finances also needed | ABS-CBN News | Latest Philippine Headlines, Breaking News, Video, Analysis, Features.

rePost::Money can't buy happiness: Individualism a stronger predictor of well-being than wealth, says new study

Salamat kay gelo para sa pointer

Fischer and Boer statistically combined the results of the different studies, noting that their analysis was somewhat unusual in that the key variables were collected from different sources and that no single study included the two variables they were considering, i.e., wealth and individualism. (Participants only answered questions regarding one of the dependent variables of general health, anxiety or burnout.)
“Across all three studies and four data sets, we observed a very consistent and robust finding that societal values of individualism were the best predictors of well-being,” the authors wrote. “Furthermore, if wealth was a significant predictor alone, this effect disappeared when individualism was entered.”
In short, they found, “Money leads to autonomy but it does not add to well-being or happiness.”
via Money can’t buy happiness: Individualism a stronger predictor of well-being than wealth, says new study.

rePost::NBA Finals poker with the Dallas Mavericks and Miami Heat: An 8 always beats a 3 – Grantland

f. On my podcast last month, Charles Barkley talked about what he called a “shit list,” how he grew to dread the names on it every time they mentioned who hadn’t won a title: Barkley, Karl Malone, Dan Marino, Ernie Banks, and others. He thought it was woefully unfair, saying that he learned to take the list as something of a compliment because everyone on it was great … but at the same time, seeing it always hurt, and he hated seeing other players face the end of their careers with that “shit list” guillotine looming. Dirk avoided the guillotine. We’ll remember him as one of the 20 best basketball players of all time, the best European player ever, one of the best shooters ever, someone who came through when it mattered … and someone who wouldn’t allow his name to end up on that list. You could even say he made a decision.
via NBA Finals poker with the Dallas Mavericks and Miami Heat: An 8 always beats a 3 – Grantland.

rePost::UN Declares Internet Access A Human Right, But Fast and Cheap May Be as Important as Open | Singularity Hub

Whether or not it has any strong hopes of enacting real change, the UN’s report calls states to promote online freedoms in five key ways (paraphrased):

  • Protect citizen’s rights to speak anonymously on the internet.
  • Refrain from building, using, or enforcing real-name databases that link online activity to user identity (even those used by popular companies like Facebook).
  • Acknowledge that national security and anti-terrorism concerns can’t be used to restrict freedom of expression except in the most dire circumstances where there is an imminent and legitimate threat.
  • Take meaningful steps to ensure the privacy of personal data.
  • Decriminalize defamation.

via UN Declares Internet Access A Human Right, But Fast and Cheap May Be as Important as Open | Singularity Hub.

rePost::Facebook, Forever 21, and the Hidden Hypocrisies of Capitalism | Partial Objects

And when Horning says “And so we vacillate between anxious self-branding and the self-negating practice of seeking some higher authenticity: we have to watch ourselves become ourselves in order to be ourselves, over and over again” what he is talking about here is the “anxiety trap” that’s been discussed on Partial Objects since the blog started. Only here, rather than the producer setting the axiety trap through conventional advertising, they set up institutional structure in which we lay the trap for ourselves and each other. What is Facebook but a series of idealized representations of ourselves self-selected to make us appear more authentically happy than we are in real life? But Facebook pits our idealized representations against those idealized representations of others.
via Facebook, Forever 21, and the Hidden Hypocrisies of Capitalism | Partial Objects.

Elink Video :: Ed Catmull, Pixar: Keep Your Crises Small


Ed Catmull
– Constant review.
– It must be safe for people to tell the truth.
– Communication must not mirror the organizational heirarchy.
– People  and how they function are more important than ideas. (Give a great idea to a mediocre group and they’ll mess it up, Give a mediocre idea to a great group and they’ll make something from it.)
– Don’t let mistakes mask problems., Do a deep assessment.