I still can’t get over the fact that this depressed me. Still asking myself why?
Happy Thanksgiving!
I’ve been on vacation since last week! Loving it but would love to say Happy Thanksgiving to all!
Video is Wednesday Addams explaining Thanksgiving!
Elink Vid:Warren Buffet and Bill Gates Answering questions from columbia biz students
I’m posting this because sometime around twenty minutes into the video a girl asks bill what industries does he think will produce the next bill gates because that is the industry that the girl wants to work on, after bill’s answer Warren B butts in and says:
“Find What Turns You On, Find what you have a passion for,
If somebody said to me bill’s biz was gonna be exciting I don’t think I would have done well…” (watch the video)…””….
“I will guarantee you’ll do well on whatever turns you on.
Don’t let anybody else tell you what to do,
You’ll figure out when your doing something..(didn’t finish)”
I was in tears,
It just hit me at the right time.
I was forgetting this.
I needed to be reminded.
Some decisions have been made tonight.
God is Good.
Advice::The three habits… | The Economist
Which points to the most irritating thing of all about management gurus: that their failures only serve to stoke demand for their services. If management could indeed be reduced to a few simple principles, then we would have no need for management thinkers. But the very fact that it defies easy solutions, leaving managers in a perpetual state of angst, means that there will always be demand for books like Mr Covey’s.
via The three habits… | The Economist.
We want easy answers, we want gurus to find the answers for us. Damn. The journey is the fun part, all the angst, all the ups and downs. Learn to Learn. Learn to target. Learn what to target. Read if you must (I surely do) but never forfeit the right to think!
Advice:: Ten Simple Rules for Choosing between Industry and Academia
Rule 7: Plan for the Long Term Top
Having noted the current situation in Rule 6, it's important also to say that a career decision should be made with the long haul in mind. The business cycle will eventually reverse itself, and while the business model may need to change irrevocably, the aging population alone dictates that healthcare will be an increasing global priority. Likewise, history shows that growth in government funding for science waxes and wanes, with a time constant somewhat longer than a decade. Trying to optimize a career decision based on current conditions is a bit like trying to time the stock market—you are sure to be overtaken by events.
One approach is to choose some reasonably long time frame, perhaps a decade, and ask yourself whether you'd be content to have lived through the average ups and downs you'd experience in a given job over that period. In academia, that would include a tenure decision (rate your chances), a lot of grant applications with mixed success at best, and maybe some great students and really significant scientific contributions. In pharma or large biotech, it would encompass a couple of promotions, your own group and maybe a department, at least one merger or other big disruption, and several rounds of layoffs. In small business, it might include a failed startup (or two, or three), an IPO if you're lucky, and a lucrative exit strategy or long-term growth if you're really lucky.
If you game these scenarios with various probabilities, and use your imagination, it just might become clear which ones you have no stomach for, and which ones really hold your interest.
via PLoS Computational Biology: Ten Simple Rules for Choosing between Industry and Academia.
There was an aha moment when I got this. I used to plan. In planning I count myself as topnotch. I coupled this with an extremely frank, honest evaluation after. Repeatedly doing this It hit me that as Dwight Eisenhower said
“In preparing for battle I have always found that plans are useless, but planning is indispensable.”
“Plans are nothing; planning is everything.”
See, it hit me that as things become more complicated the more useless plans become. To be really rational about something what you need to do is develop a personality of adaptability. To be a person that can face most of anything. To train yourself to be quick on your feet, and great at improvisation. We can guess a lot of things about the future we can see trends and have a feel for what is happening, But in a sense predicting the future is simply impossible. This help wean me from believing that there is a yellow brick road to a happy/successful life. I’m no longer blind to believing that anything is a sure thing. Most things for me are probable or improbable.
Life is not as clean as that of science or math. Yes you can use some optimization, game theory and stuff but the complexity in life sometimes mean that even if you optimize from start to finish you end up somewhere not so good, whilst even if you made so many mistakes and bad decisions you still end up someplace great. Life is choatic.
Does this mean I don’t plan? No, I still plan during times when I don’t have anything better to do. This is because planning is everything. It is aform of play acting. It’s probably my excuse for perusing science fiction, to put myself in situations where making decisions does not follow simple rules.
If all things fail, cheer up always remember that the human mind has an extreme ability to be okay with most things. Just ask Dan Ariely(In his 2005 TED Talk I think.)
Advice::The 40-30-30 Rule: Why Risk Is Worth It :: Tips :: The 99 Percent
Many of the strategies employed in competitive and recreational sports are applicable in business and our personal lives. One lesson I learned from alpine ski racing was the “40-30-30 Rule.” During training, early on, I tried to go fast, and I also focused on not falling. On a ride up the ski lift, my coach told me I was missing the point. He explained that success in ski racing, or most sports for that matter, was only 40% physical training. The other 60% was mental. And of that, the first 30% was technical skill and experience. The second 30% was the willingness to take risks.
via The 40-30-30 Rule: Why Risk Is Worth It :: Tips :: The 99 Percent.
I’m choosing between two job offers right now, and its a choice between safe and predictable returns versus very risky (an actual startup, again ) and zero to great returns. Most friends advice going the predictable route, I’d like to go the unpredictable route. Why is it so hard?
rePost:: 'Leonids' to light up skies for 2 days – Yahoo! Philippines News
Pagasa: 'Leonids' to light up skies for 2 days
Philstar.com – Tuesday, November 17
MANILA, Philippines – A “prolific” meteor shower is expected to light up the skies of Asia and Europe for two days – tomorrow night (Nov. 17) and Wednesday (Nov. 18), the Philippine Atmospheric, Geophysical and Astronomical Services Administration (Pagasa) said.
Here in the Philippines, Pagasa administrator Prisco Nilo said Filipinos will get a glimpse of the meteorological phenomenon, known as the “Leonids” meteor shower, between 11 p.m. and 6 a.m. of the following day.
“We have a very good chance that we'll see meteor showers,” Nilo said.
He, however, stressed that people in the Visayas and Mindanao will have a difficult time seeing the meteor showers because of the intertropical convergence zone, which is expected to bring scattered rain showers this week.
via Pagasa: ‘Leonids’ to light up skies for 2 days – Yahoo! Philippines News.
really looking forward to this, luckily I’m a night person. I hope the weather is fine and it is clear skies all around. Anybody want to tweet this whilst it happening, wonder what tag to use?
New Page Announcement
I created a new page on the site. Prose page. I’ve pasted some short stories that I’ve written three to be exact. It’s funny that the there is short story for years 2004,2005, and 2006. Don’t know what happened 2007(I think , Ok I’m sure I got rejected and It really took me awhile as in probably 2 years to be partially healed). These aren’t all I’ve written these past days but these were at least almost finished. Funny but further inspecting my files I’ve written quite a few stories about a great many things , mostly (dreams,loneliness,joy,happiness,despair, etc). I think my problems with non-romantic emotions are that feelings of joy,loneliness, etc change to drastically and I can’t seem to muster it enough to create. Need to be more disciplined!
Help With Activities?
Going to Camiguin-CDO-CEBU wednesday morning
I belie our outline for the trip is
Wed Noon-Fri Noon Camiguin
Fri Noon-Mon Noon CDO
Mon Noon – (I have no Idea how long the trip is) Travel to Cebu
Our flight to Manila is Saturday in the afternoon 5pm I think .
Don’t have anything/anywhere to do/go.(Yep, have an aversion against planning)
Kind souls please help with what to do? Cheap places to stay? Food to eat? Restaurants NOT to miss?
Thanks In Advance!
rePost::Understanding The Blueberry Muffin – Ta-Nehisi Coates
I used to cook everyday. It was a great way to end the day. Of course this meant that I slept very late preparing the meal for next day, and that I was spending more on food compared to other people and compared to me when I eat out (without factoring the time spent on cooking). But I loved cooking. Sadly our stove and oven conked out and it has been over a year and a half and I’m still getting by with an electric stove. I hope (I will) I can get my stove/oven fixed and start cooking again. In a way it personalizes food. It also is a way to de-stress.
My family, like most families, generally lives on the go, and we rarely get to have a decent breakfast in the morning. So most weekends I make twelve muffins (a different flavor each week) as breakfast for the week. I’m sure that someone, somewhere is scolding me for feeding my kid a muffin for breakfast. But here’s what I know. When you make Mocha Chip Muffins, as I did this weekend, and see the ingredients going in–the copious amounts of butter, dairy and sugar–it makes you think long and hard about what you’re eating, and what you should eat the rest of the day. It’s one thing to know that a muffin is fatty. It’s another thing to actually add the fat in yourself. Moreover, it’s another thing to see the size of your muffins, and then see the gargantuan muffins that are sold in the stores.
Cooking–and really cooking from scratch–creates a consciousness about food. It creates a respect, an understanding of what, exactly, you’re putting in your body. It’s not that cooking is magically healthier. I’m not convinced that, say, my fried chicken has less calories than KFCs. But that isn’t the point. The point is doing the actual work of frying a great chicken. It’s actually having to see all the oil and eggs (depending on your recipe) used in the process. For me at least, doing that, has made it unlikely that I’ll fry chicken every day, or even every week.
via Understanding The Blueberry Muffin – Ta-Nehisi Coates.