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The lovely and amazing performance poet Gabrielle Bouliane performs for the audience at the Austin Poetry Slam.
This would be her last public performance.
Gabrielle was diagnosed with Stage Four Cancer shortly before this video was filmed. Our dear sister fought hard, but she ended her fight January 29, 2010. She was surrounded by family and friends, and her passing was in a very quiet, peaceful room full of love and affection. She was so brave.
Please share this video with everyone you know. I am sure it would tickle her to no end to have this video get as viral as a video can be. Tell the world.

rePost::Echoes of the Long Walk – TrueHoop Blog – ESPN

Can anybody lend me a copy?
Need to read something inspiring now!
This was an excellent post with a nice anecdote featuring Jerry West and Bill Russell.

I read Nelson Mandela’s book “Long Walk to Freedom” several years ago.
On the cover, there’s a quote from the Boston Globe, saying the book “should be read by every person alive.”
That’s an absurdly big statement, but I could not agree more. Twenty years to the day after Mandela’s release from prison, it’s a good day to pick up that book again.
It’s an amazing story, for a number of reasons, but to me the lasting message is that, in the face of dreadful, pervasive, overwhelming, demeaning and dehumanizing opposition, and without all that much reason to believe he’d succeed, Mandela did four things:

  • He would not accept the status quo.
  • He would not be quiet.
  • He would maintain his own dignity.
  • He would not quit.

He was released. He led his nation. Everything did not work out tidily. His story is not one a dream having come perfectly true. But in broad strokes, he and his colleagues changed the world and ended apartheid.
via Echoes of the Long Walk – TrueHoop Blog – ESPN.

rePost::Millionaire gives away fortune which made him miserable – Telegraph

Some truths need the benefit of time and experience to be apparent.

“My idea is to have nothing left. Absolutely nothing,” he told The Daily Telegraph. “Money is counterproductive – it prevents happiness to come.”
Instead, he will move out of his luxury Alpine retreat into a small wooden hut in the mountains or a simple bedsit in Innsbruck.
His entire proceeds are going to charities he set up in Central and Latin America, but he will not even take a salary from these.
“For a long time I believed that more wealth and luxury automatically meant more happiness,” he said. “I come from a very poor family where the rules were to work more to achieve more material things, and I applied this for many years,” said Mr Rabeder.
But over time, he had another, conflicting feeling.
“More and more I heard the words: ‘Stop what you are doing now – all this luxury and consumerism – and start your real life’,” he said. “I had the feeling I was working as a slave for things that I did not wish for or need.
I have the feeling that there are lot of people doing the same thing.”
via Millionaire gives away fortune which made him miserable – Telegraph.

Love To Read::Cormac McCarthy on The Road – WSJ.com

WSJ: How does the notion of aging and death affect the work you do? Has it become more urgent?
CM: Your future gets shorter and you recognize that. In recent years, I have had no desire to do anything but work and be with [son] John. I hear people talking about going on a vacation or something and I think, what is that about? I have no desire to go on a trip. My perfect day is sitting in a room with some blank paper. That’s heaven. That’s gold and anything else is just a waste of time.
WSJ: How does that ticking clock affect your work? Does it make you want to write more shorter pieces, or to cap things with a large, all-encompassing work?
CM: I’m not interested in writing short stories. Anything that doesn’t take years of your life and drive you to suicide hardly seems worth doing.
WSJ: The last five years have seemed very productive for you. Have there been fallow periods in your writing?
CM: I don’t think there’s any rich period or fallow period. That’s just a perception you get from what’s published. Your busiest day might be watching some ants carrying bread crumbs. Someone asked Flannery O’Connor why she wrote, and she said, “Because I was good at it.” And I think that’s the right answer. If you’re good at something it’s very hard not to do it. In talking to older people who’ve had good lives, inevitably half of them will say, “The most significant thing in my life is that I’ve been extraordinarily lucky.” And when you hear that you know you’re hearing the truth. It doesn’t diminish their talent or industry. You can have all that and fail.
via Cormac McCarthy on The Road – WSJ.com.

rePost::The Trials of Tony Judt – The Chronicle Review – The Chronicle of Higher Education

This was a an excellent read , both of the ideas and the person with the ideas Tony Judt. I cannot even imagine how hard it is to have ALS. I was recently called restless by someone, I guess I am. To think I initially have to walk around, till I can get focused, after I am focused then I can hunker down and actually do stuff. We develop these habits that become part of our MO, to get ALS and suddenly need to change how one thinks is something quite unbearable for me.
READ THE WHOLE THING!!!!!

To abandon the gains made by social democrats—the New Deal, the Great Society, the European welfare state—”is to betray those who came before us as well as generations yet to come.”
The lecture, which lasted nearly two hours, yoked together a few themes that have long preoccupied Judt: the role of intellectuals and ideas in political life, and the failure of both Americans and Europeans to understand and learn from the past century. (We live, Judt has written, in an “age of forgetting.”) He concluded his remarks on a pragmatic note. “It would be pleasing—but misleading—to report that social democracy, or something like it, represents the future that we would paint for ourselves in an ideal world,” he said, carefully pronouncing each word. “It does not even represent the ideal past. But, among the options available to us in the present, it is better than anything else to hand.”
The standing ovation was tremendous. “I was initially shocked by the disjunction between his intellectual capacity, which is completely undiminished and in many respects unequaled, and the physical degradation,” says Richard Wolin, a professor of history at the Graduate Center of the City University of New York, who was in the audience. “But after five minutes, I lost sight of any physicality and focused on his words and their importance.” He adds, “It was one of the most moving scenes I have ever witnessed.”
About a month later, I meet Judt at his apartment, on the upper floor of a tall brick building near Washington Square Park, where he lives with his wife, the dance critic Jennifer Homans, and their two teenage children. A sign on the door asks visitors to wash their hands. Judt's nurse, a young man, silently leads me through the spacious, immaculate wood-floored apartment to a book-lined study, where Judt is waiting in his wheelchair, head against a tan pillow, hands on lap, feet bare and swollen. At 61, he has close-cropped hair and a graying beard. Dressed in a maroon T-shirt and flannel pants, he peers out through circular glasses. A wireless microphone is affixed to his left ear. Though we are sitting only a few feet apart, his nurse flips the power switch, and Judt's faint voice suddenly booms out of a nearby speaker.
“We have watched the decline of 80 years of great investment in public services,” he says. “We are throwing away the efforts, ideas, and ambitions of the past.” It is plainly difficult for him to speak, but he is doggedly eloquent. His eyes, forced to do the work of his entire body, are strikingly expressive; when he gets excited, he arches his brows high and opens them wide, which he does when he says, “Communism was a very defective answer to some very good questions. In throwing out the bad answer, we have forgotten the good questions. I want to put the good questions back on the table.”
I ask how he felt after the lecture. “Elated,” Judt replies simply. Some friends and colleagues had encouraged him to scrap his planned remarks and speak instead about ALS. “I thought about it,” Judt says, “but I have nothing new to say about ALS. I do have something new to say about social democracy, and by saying it in my condition I can maybe have some influence on people's understanding of sickness.” He takes a deep breath. “There is something to be said for simply doing the thing you would do anyway, doing it as well as you can under the circumstances, and getting past the sympathy vote as soon as possible.”
via The Trials of Tony Judt – The Chronicle Review – The Chronicle of Higher Education.

rePost::Lawyer's life lessons from Jollibee | ABS-CBN News Online Beta

Nice set of lessons, hope they can do a more indepth feature.

Lawyer’s life lessons from Jollibee
by Arnel Paciano Casanova | 01/14/2010 8:06 PM
(Editor’s note: Between slapping relish on Jolly Hotdogs, funneling Crispy Fries in carboard holders and pledging allegiance to a giant bee–working at a global fast food chain has its lessons.
Here are some nuggets of wisdom from a former rank-and-file Jollibee employee, who has since moved on to brighter things.)
Lessons I Learned from Jollibee
1. A Jollibee worker is a happy worker. When you do things with a smile, a heavy task becomes lighter. Then you discover that you can lift up the mountains in your life.
2. When your contract ends, it means a better job is waiting for you.

Atty. Arnel Paciano Casanova is the Executive Director of Asia Society in the Philippines and the youngest appointed General Counsel of the Bases Conversion and Development Authority.
He is a law graduate of the University of the Philippines with a Master’s degree in Public Administration from Harvard University. He is a Philippine Legion of Honor Medal awardee, the highest non-combat merit medal in the country.
via Lawyer’s life lessons from Jollibee | ABS-CBN News Online Beta.

rePost::don’t worry if you don’t know “absolutely everything” before starting out | Gapingvoid

“DON’T WORRY IF YOU DON’T KNOW ‘ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING’ BEFORE STARTING OUT.”
That’s pro­bably the last thing you need…
A lot of peo­ple mas­si­vely post­pone their EVIL PLANS, for the sim­ple rea­son that they don’t have an ans­wer for every pos­si­ble contingency.
They don’t know enough about the industry. They don’t know enough peo­ple in the industry– espe­cially the A-Listers. They don’t know enough about where the mar­ket is going to be in five years. They don’t know enough about what could pos­sibly go wrong. They don’t know where EVERY SINGLE LAST POSSIBLE LANDMINE is buried.
So ins­tead of get­ting on with it, they spend the next few years kee­ping their Nowhe­res­vi­lle day job, whilst spen­ding their eve­nings sur­fing the web, scou­ring the trade maga­zi­nes, researching everything like crazy, trying to get a tho­rough, small-time Outsider’s view about what the big-time Insi­ders are currently up to.
And then they often com­pound this by also trying to get a handle on the even big­ger stuff. What will hap­pen to the American/Asian/European/Brazilian/Whatever eco­nomy in the next 2/5/10/25/Whatever years, and how will these BIG things affect their tiny, obs­cure niche.
They want to have ALL the ans­wers, before ever ris­king get­ting their feet wet. Hell, before even get­ting their little toe wet…
Agreed, a wee bit of pru­dence and infor­med cir­cums­pec­tion are lovely vir­tues to have, but over­doing it can be ulti­ma­tely unpro­duc­tive, for a variety of rea­sons. Here are my four favo­rite ones:
via don’t worry if you don’t know “absolutely everything” before starting out | Gapingvoid.

I’m not getting any younger, sometime I will have to make the plunge, I hope its soon. This was a nice read!!!

rePost::personalized porn | Gapingvoid

Loved reading this! read the story at the linked article!!!!!

“Look,” he says, “Back then I was just one of thou­sands of young wan­nabe film knuc­kleheads in New York, trying to get my foot in the door. I nee­ded to have a story to tell peo­ple. One that was inte­res­ting. One that was dif­fe­rent. One that got people’s atten­tion. One that made me stand out from all the other knuc­kleheads. One that didn’t require me having a mas­sive show­reel. Hey, it wor­ked. That story got me my first few edi­ting jobs in the busi­ness. And since then I’ve been nothing but successful.”
He pau­ses for a second.
“A little present-tense suc­cess, for­gi­ves a lot of past-tense fai­lure,” he says, chuc­kling with delight.
via personalized porn | Gapingvoid.