{"id":3446,"date":"2010-02-16T08:46:25","date_gmt":"2010-02-16T13:46:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/onthe8spot.com\/?p=3446"},"modified":"2010-02-16T08:46:25","modified_gmt":"2010-02-16T13:46:25","slug":"repostwant-passionate-kids-leave-em-alone-yahoo-news","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/onthe8spot.com\/index.php\/2010\/02\/16\/repostwant-passionate-kids-leave-em-alone-yahoo-news\/","title":{"rendered":"rePost::Want Passionate Kids? Leave 'em Alone – Yahoo! News"},"content":{"rendered":"
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For parent friends!!!<\/h1>\n
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Want Passionate Kids? Leave ’em Alone<\/h1>\n

via Want Passionate Kids? Leave ’em Alone – Yahoo! News<\/a>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n

Michael Torrice
\nLiveScience Contributor
\nlivescience.com<\/a><\/span> <\/cite> \u2013 Tue\u00a0Feb\u00a09, 8:50\u00a0am\u00a0ET<\/abbr><\/div>\n

Parents who want their children to discover a passion for music, sports, or other hobbies should follow a simple plan: Don’t pressure them.
\nBy allowing kids to explore activities on their own, parents not only help children<\/span><\/a> pinpoint the pursuit that fits them best, but they can also prevent young minds from obsessing over an activity, a new study finds.
\n“Passion comes from a special fit between an activity and a person,” said Genevi\u00e8ve Mageau, a psychology professor at the University of Montreal. “You can’t force that fit; it has to be found.”
\nThe study focused on what psychologists call autonomy<\/span><\/a>, the basic need to feel like you’re acting based on your own values and desires, not those of others. Controlling parents chip away at their child’s autonomy, by pushing them into a hobby, the researchers say. So when the kid picks up his clarinet it’s not out of a desire to play music<\/span><\/a>, but due to a sense of obligation or a fear of disappointing his parents, according to Mageau.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For parent friends!!! Want Passionate Kids? Leave ’em Alone via Want Passionate Kids? Leave ’em Alone – Yahoo! News. Michael Torrice LiveScience Contributor livescience.com \u2013 Tue\u00a0Feb\u00a09, 8:50\u00a0am\u00a0ET Parents who want their children to discover a passion for music, sports, or other hobbies should follow a simple plan: Don’t pressure them. By allowing kids to explore … <\/p>\n

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